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So many people waste their time on their first few dates. They may be having fun, but they may be setting themselves up to be in a relationship that should have never happened. When they do that, they stay together too long, and the break up is way more painful, but it definitely inevitable. That is often the result of not asking the right dating questions when they first go out with someone. The first dates are to get to know each other, but they are also to let you know if you have found someone with whom you are compatible in the long run. If not, why go on?

You may want to ask someone what they do in their spare time, and what they like to watch on television as some of your early dating questions. Those are fine, and you should ask them, but they are not as deep as you need to go. You may feel awkward asking more personal questions, but why would you want to be dating someone who has deep fundamental beliefs that are the total opposite of what you believe? In the long run, the relationship is going to fail because neither of you is going to want to change those. You may as well as the right dating questions right off the bat.
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